I know there is all kinds of hype for 50 Shades of Grey... which I don't get! It's not that the story line is bad(cause I wouldn't know!) The writing is horrible!! Not just horrible... but BAD!!! Piss poor! how many ways can I say it?!?!? I couldn't even read the samples! That to me is BAD BAD BAD!!!! I thought... ok maybe the second book will be better... OMG it DOESN'T get better! It's the same with the 3rd! I'm sorry... if the writing sucks so bad I don't like ANY of the first 3 chapters of 3 books... OMG.... that's HORRIBLE!!!! So.... who cares what the book is about? because I couldn't read it! I sure as hell wasn't going to pay 9.99 for it! Now... after all the damn hype it was getting I thought... ok I'll try it again. Nope... still SUCKED!!!
OK.... so that's what I thought of the actual writing... I've heard from those who have actually been able to read this series... I guess they could get past the bad writing.... Anyway... so I'm hearing about the BDSM aspect of this book... and the things I'm hearing just really piss me off!! and DON'T get me started on the whole "mommy porn" crap!!! Plus I'm hearing it's not all that great when it comes to the erotica... so can someone answer me this?!? How in the hell did this book become popular? Unless it's just typical fashion of people jumping on the damn bandwagon... DUDE... there are SO many better books... If it's all just because she piggybacked off Twilight... well one would think that an editor would be able to say... "Hey, you really need to make the flow of this better. Your writing is a little stiff and you jump from point to point WAY too much!" and I got this JUST from the SAMPLE chapters!! You can't tell me it gets better!!
Next... the "real" world a GOOD Dom is NOT going to enter a contract or try to enter a contract with a VIRGIN!!!! I'm hearing this is in the book... REALLY?!?! WHAT?!?!? OK... if you've never been or read anything on BDSM then I could understand your complete and utter lack of intelligence... BUT supposedly she LOOKED into this!!! Where's the disclaimer at the beginning? Cherise Sinclair has one... and that to me... WOW... I really respect that!! Because there are way too many people who could read this and think... oh... so this is how it's done.... Wake up!!! This is NOT how it's done!!
I will say... I don't live the lifestyle... that means I'm not in it 24/7... I am however and have been into BDSM since I was an adult. If you're interested in learning more... check out FetLife... GREAT site! Great place to meet people in your area who are also into all kinds of things... Kink, BDSM and just about anything non vanilla... and well some into vanilla as well :D Thing is... most of these people are NOT going to judge you and your lack of knowledge on the subject, but will embrace you and make you feel welcome! Hello... most of us there have been where you are... we've been through and are STILL discovering NEW things! That's one of the best things... there is always new things to learn or explore! Plus... ANYONE into Kink or BDSM will tell you that the MOST important thing... SAFETY!!!! That's why there are Safe Words... a true Dom/Domme will help you explore your limits SAFELY and want you to reach sub space but a true Dom/Domme isn't wanting to hurt you only push your limits... they will teach you new things about yourself... and while most don't understand it... it's actually the sub who's in control. A good Dom/Domme will know their sub and watch and make sure they are OK... trust is a BIG thing! Granted not all share my views... and these are mine... but if this is something you're interested in... by all means check it out! There's a whole community who's willing to help and share their knowledge! Safe, Sane and Consensual!!
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